We have known each other for 13 years, started as friends, and now we are a couple just married. We were very different people, maybe all the things you could think of, we are on the opposite side. Spent 4 years together, and we are still independent ourselves, but we are also inspired by each other and become similar at some point. For example, we are very much on the same page regarding marriage and wedding planning. I think we did make the day become what we wanted.