We were drawn to things that felt natural, grounded, and comfortable.
Tell us a little about yourselves, what you do, what you love…
I’m Yishan, currently living in San Francisco with my partner Yitong and our two cats. I’ve loved art and design for as long as I can remember. I originally went to architecture school, but a few years ago, I transitioned into product design in tech. One of my favourite things to do is thrifting—wandering flea markets and estate sales, searching for pieces with history and character. I love things that feel lived-in, imperfect, and quietly beautiful. That appreciation for thoughtful design and everyday moments is something Yitong and I share, and it deeply shaped how we approached our wedding.
How/where/when did you meet – and what were your first impressions?
We met on a dating app and had our first date at a local cider bar on a weekday night. One of our favourite memories from that evening is that I showed up carrying a huge bag of toilet paper (desperate times, truly). It somehow broke the ice immediately.
It felt like love at first sight for both of us. We talked for hours—about our dreams, how we grew up, and yes, even the toilet paper. When I left that night, I remember feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness. I couldn’t wait to see him again, but I was also quietly hoping he felt the same way.
What styling and visual elements worked best for you? (could be things, the florals, particular hire products or your marquee, etc., something the stylist created or simply just the scenic beauty of your location or the existing design of your venue).
We were drawn to things that felt natural, grounded, and comfortable. The florals and greenery looked as if they were growing organically from the redwood forest where we held our ceremony. The photography focused on real moments and emotion rather than anything overly staged. Even our outfits felt like an extension of who we are – pieces we could imagine wearing beyond just one day. Everything felt effortless and true to us.
What did you enjoy most about the planning process, and do you have any tips for couples starting their wedding planning journey?
Designing the different elements of the wedding was our favourite part. We worked closely with our planner, who was also our florist 0 to shape the ceremony site, and we designed all of the stationery ourselves. My biggest advice to couples is to trust your instincts and focus on what genuinely feels meaningful to you, rather than what’s expected.
Tell us about your vendors. Were there any standout suppliers you would like to make special mention of?
Our planner and florist truly exceeded our expectations – not only in the design itself, but in how thoughtful and responsive they were throughout the process. Our photographer, Ashley, was also incredible. We wanted someone who could capture moments and emotion, and she did exactly that. Looking at our photos instantly brings us back to that day.
Tell us about your main outfits, what was unique, and is there a story?
I wore a dress from San Francisco-based designer Kamperett: a nude bra, ivory skirt, and a sheer organza overlay. What I loved most was how comfortable and free I felt. I could move, walk, dance, and fully enjoy the day without feeling constrained – it felt completely like me.
Tell us about your wedding and engagement rings.
We chose both our engagement ring and wedding bands from the Japanese jewellery brand Kataoka. I first discovered the brand through Emma Stone’s engagement photo and immediately fell in love with the elegance of the pearl ring. We also chose matching wedding bands, and loved the idea of sharing the same design.
What were one or two elements that were most important to you both that you were happy to spend a little more on? (food, photography, florals, the venue, your outfits?).
Florals and photography.
Was there a favourite moment (or two) that you will treasure always?
At the end of the night, when the lights dimmed, we held each other close and danced to Lover by Taylor Swift. It was quiet, intimate, and the perfect way to end the day.
What does being married mean to you, and are there any special rituals you have that you would like to share?
Being married means living life together – spending countless hours with the family we choose. We don’t have formal rituals, but every night we cuddle before bed and say goodnight to each other. It’s a small thing, but it means everything.
CEREMONY LOCATION SF Botanical Garden, Redwood RECEPTION LOCATION Penny Roma, San Francisco, CA, @pennyroma_sf PHOTOGRAPHER Ashley M Clayton, @ashley.m.clayton STYLIST, PLANNER & FLORIST Found Floral, @found.floral ENTERTAINMENT Ceremony Musician – Duo Far Niente, @duo_farniente; Reception DJ – All Ears DJ, @allearsdj HIRE Found Rental Co., @foundrentalco CATERING Penny Roma, @pennyroma_sf RINGS Kataoka Jewelry, @kataoka_jewelry BRIDE’S DRESS Kamperett, @kamperett
